From self-doubt to self-assured: Transform your confidence

Do you often reflect on the areas of your life where you desire growth and improvement? One such area, often fraught with challenges, is self-confidence. Whether you're looking to excel in your career, improve your relationships, or simply feel more at ease in your own skin, building confidence is key. The journey from self-doubt to self-assured isn't always easy, but it is possible.

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Coming up are some ways to transform your confidence. These tips are all things you can do at home with time, meditation and journaling. However, a hypnotherapist will help you deepen your understandings, give you techniques to use, and gently nudge you back onto the path of discovery should you stray.


Transform your confidence

1. Understand the roots of self-doubt

Self-doubt often stems from past experiences, societal expectations, and internalised criticism. By identifying the sources of your self-doubt, you can begin to address and counteract them. Take some time to reflect on moments when you felt unsure of yourself. What triggered these feelings? Was it a specific event, a person's words, or your own inner critic? Understanding the root cause is the first step towards overcoming self-doubt.

2. Set realistic goals

Setting achievable goals is crucial for building confidence. Unrealistic goals can set you up for failure and reinforce self-doubt. Instead, start with small, attainable objectives that can be gradually scaled up. For example, if public speaking terrifies you, begin speaking in small group settings before tackling larger audiences.

Celebrating these small victories will provide the motivation and confidence to take on bigger challenges. Always check your goals align with your values. A therapist will help you with your values if it feels like unknown territory.

3. Develop a growth mindset

Adopting a growth mindset can significantly impact your confidence. People with a growth mindset believe they can develop their abilities and intelligence through dedication and hard work. By embracing challenges, learning from criticism, and persisting in the face of setbacks, you can turn your experiences into learning opportunities, fostering resilience and self-assurance.

4. Practice self-compassion

Self-compassion involves treating yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would a friend. Instead of harshly criticising yourself for mistakes or perceived shortcomings, practice self-forgiveness and understanding. This shift in perspective can reduce the harshness of your inner critic and promote a healthier, more supportive internal dialogue. Remember, mistakes are all part of the human experience.

5. Surround yourself with positivity

The people you surround yourself with greatly influence your self-esteem. Stick to supportive, positive individuals who uplift and encourage you. Conversely, limit exposure to those who drain your energy or consistently undermine your confidence. Creating a positive social environment can improve efforts to build self-assurance.

6. Invest in self-care

Taking care of your physical and mental well-being is foundational to confidence. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, sufficient sleep, and mindfulness practices such as meditation or yoga can enhance your mood and reduce stress. When you feel good physically, it's easier to feel good mentally and emotionally.

7. Step out of your comfort zone

Growth occurs outside your comfort zone. Try new things, especially those that are challenging and make you uncomfortable at first. This could be anything from taking a new class, joining a club, or travelling solo. Each new experience adds to your personal growth and broadens your perspective, ultimately boosting your confidence.

8. Visualise success

Visualisation is a powerful tool for building confidence. Spend a few minutes each day imagining yourself succeeding in your goals. Picture the details vividly: what you’re wearing, how you’re feeling, the reactions of those around you. This mental rehearsal can help condition your mind to accept success as a real possibility, reducing anxiety and enhancing performance when it’s time to act.

9. Celebrate your progress

Acknowledge and celebrate your progress. Keep a journal of your achievements, no matter how small they might seem. Reflecting on your growth can provide motivation and remind you of your capabilities. Celebrate yourself and your journey; confidence is not a destination, but a continuous process of growth and self-discovery.


Always remember, there’s no shame in seeking help from a therapist or coach if self-doubt significantly impacts your life. Professional guidance can provide you with tailored strategies to overcome deep-seated insecurities and build lasting confidence. Therapy can also offer a safe space to explore and address underlying issues contributing to self-doubt.

Transforming self-doubt into self-assurance is a journey that requires patience, effort, and self-love. By understanding the roots of your insecurities, setting realistic goals, adopting a growth mindset, practising self-compassion, and stepping out of your comfort zone, you can build a more confident you. All steps forward are victories worth celebrating. Embrace the journey, and let this year be the year you transform your confidence and truly shine.

The views expressed in this article are those of the author. All articles published on Hypnotherapy Directory are reviewed by our editorial team.

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Written by Juliet Hollingsworth, MSc
Farnham, Surrey, GU9

Juliet, a hypnotherapist since 2008, with a diploma in Clinical Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy is an AnxietyUK therapist. In 2018 she was awarded an MSc in Consciousness, Spirituality & Transpersonal Psychology which she uses to complement her therapy work. Find quick fix sessions for Weight Loss, Anxiety, Fear of Flying & Sleep on Juliet's website.

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